Sex: We ALL Want It

Posted by: Skye Blue    Tags:  , , ,     Posted date:  March 14, 2010  |  11 Comments


March 14, 2010


SKYE BLUE

I’m sure more than a few of you have heard your mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters and even a few well meaning female friends say that men:

“…only want one thing”"sex on the brain"

“…just want to get into your pants”

“…only think with the ‘head’ below their waist”

more times than you care to remember. These phrases are often uttered as admonitions, warning us to be on high alert when dealing with the self-serving, lecherous, horny and ever-ready men we meet. Yet, I’m sure none of the sage women offering up their pearls of wisdom bothered to tell you that once you’d been ‘serviced’ by a man with a ‘magic stick’ and/or ‘mad skillz’ in the bedroom, you just might be the one: after one thing, clamouring to get into someone’s pants and/or thinking solely with the tiny throbbing ‘head’ between your legs. (We’ve all been there. I’m just trying to keep it real ladies).

If you’ve been lucky enough to have a man put it on you in ways that had you calling out to your maker and archin’ your back until your belly grazed the ceiling, you probably yearn for the feeling of a long stiff one between your legs just as much as the owner of said stiff one yearns to get all up inside you, right?

So why has frontin’ like we don’t want it become modus operandi for so many woman? Why do we act like a good round of sex doesn’t hit the spot like an ice cold bottle of your favourite brew on a hot summer day? And as if pretending that we don’t want it as much as we do isn’t bad enough, many women are quick to condemn men who boldly state their desire to ‘commune’. Such men are usually deemed to be pigs, dogs and/or bastards, especially when ‘generously’ giving up some extra good lovin’ doesn’t earn the woman in question the status of girlfriend or wifey. (I see you out there shifting nervously in your seats).

Ladies, we’re no longer expected to lie still (and go out like starfish), suffering through the "we all want sex"action until our bed mate busts a nut. It’s 2010 y’all and we can go for ours in the bedroom. (Can I get an AMEN?!). So maybe the whole “men are only after one thing” bit no longer applies?

My sisters, now is the time for us to own up to the fact that much like our male counterparts, we REALLY enjoy a good roll in the hay. I mean at the end of the day, aren’t men and women alike down for some mind-blowing sex?


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Skye Blue is a straight shooting, wayward woman who enjoys discussing all matters related to dating and mating, reveling in oral pleasures, and doing very bad things.



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r-dean

I think it’s true we women ‘want it’ too – but, I think we are A LOT more discerning than man, so aren’t in that ‘she’s gotta have it’ state as men, as often.
[I've been there recently. Got it. And now have complication, wondering how do I part amicably from the source?]

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max

AMEN!

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Skye Blue

@ r-dean – i don’t know girl. more than a few women I know always seem to be jonesin’ for some action and get down with men that make me SMH. not sure we all as discerning as you think.

@ Max – thanks girl!

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Ken

Intriguingly, I kinda hit on the same sorta topic today at LustMongers. While I agree we all want it, I still think men have less limitations. Women “want it”… with a certain guy, when they’re in a certain mood, when they’re drunk and horny, etc etc. Myself, and most men I know, could go instantly with the woman at the grocery store counter, the lady who delivers the mail, the neighbor, the nurse, the dry-cleaning lady, etc. At any given time, no questions asked. A woman says, “let’s go,” and we’re on it. If I’m out with a former flame, I can still hit it, regardless of my feelings toward her. Women, not so much. Most tend to have an easier time “closing the book” which has always baffled me.

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Skye Blue

@ Ken – “Women “want it”… with a certain guy, when they’re in a certain mood, when they’re drunk and horny, etc etc.”

Although I agree with what you’re saying I think all the factors above come into play because of all the stigma around being a ‘loose’ and ‘non-discerning’ woman that we have to deal with. If the playing field was just a little more level I think things would be quite different.

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Shans

First of all… AMEN! Second I’d like to point out that we as woman are often forced into boxes, similar to the “dog” and “pig” boxes we put men into, only for us the boxes are much different “Slut” or “Prude.” If we admit to liking sex, to wanting it, needing it… and basically willing to miss important meetings, phone calls from our far-away families and jumping on a 25 hour bus ride for it (yes, I did)…. we’re sluts. If we try to take it slowly… we’re prudes. The problem here is that there is no middle ground for women we must choose one way or the other. So I’ve decided to take the word back – I’m a slut and damn proud of it!

The new definition of slut btw is as follows: A wild woman who dares to enjoy sex, who is fierce and strong and doesn’t shy away from a BJ. A woman who will never ever sleep with a man to feel better about herself but will sleep with whomever she likes whenever she likes because sex is not anything to be ashamed of.

- End Rant -

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Elizabeth Rose

@shans – as a fellow slut, I salute you! Excellent definition. I may translate it into some hieroglyphs and get an obscene looking tattoo of it up my thigh.

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Mike Masters

I really enjoy posts like this, I love the honesty.
I believe with this kind of sexual leveling there could be a lot more peace in the world. Amen to great sex and sex for sexes sake.

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Skye Blue

@ Shans and Elizabeth Rose – here’s to old and new friends. You two so rock my world.

To Shans I say – sluts of the world unite, and Ms.Elizabeth Rose I want to be there when you get the tatoo ;)

@ Mike – thanks for dropping by sir. here’s to more honesty and good sex everywhere.

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Vitamin-S

I’m with Ken on this. Women control the where, when and sometimes how of our favourite topic. As Ken states, – I’m paraphrasing here – we’ll jump ‘head’ first into some primo (sometimes not so primo) poon because it was handed to us.

When the feast comes, we feast as we’re not sure when the next famine will strike!!

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Skye Blue

@ Vitamin-S(ex) – with a name like that i can’t imagine you’ve ever had to deal with any droughts, much less famines in the women department.

;)

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