May 5, 2010

ELIZABETH ROSE

Sex is a physical passion, a talent and a skill; yet we have heard of the impact of all day foreplay where the mind can be engaged from a distance to leave you jumping on your lover. This is a great tip for the way to get better sex, but today I want to spin it around. Get better sex through avoiding bad sex, as it were.

It’s all about focus. Don’t let others get into your head and ruin antics in your bed!

I’ll give you a common example of one’s head ruining the moment:

I wonder if his last girlfriend was thinner than me?

Suddenly you are thinking about lighting and avoiding unflattering angles rather than riding the waves of delicious orgasms. So switch it up, ladies!

Do you think he’s going to enjoy a perfunctory blow job performed by a lass who is wondering about how her technique compares to his ex?

How about his cock being explored by the tongue of a girl while she massages the length of shaft with her lips and simultaneously uses one hand to grip the base and the other to gently cup his balls? That kind of attention takes concentration!

Don’t you think he is going to enjoy it even more if he looks down to see you looking back at him with sheer unflinching desire in your eyes? He knows you are enjoying it – so he does too. Suddenly you are giving him “the greatest head” ever.

Get into the moment and out of your psyche, your insecurities and your hang ups; but most importantly get out of other people’s business. If you are worrying that someone is having better sex than you – they probably are. This is because they are out there doing it and enjoying it instead of worrying, judging or preaching. I sincerely hope everyone is having GREAT sex. It’s my personal belief good sex makes people happier, and I make no judgements about how or who they do.

However, if you are the kind of person who makes a habit of judging others because they’re actually going out and getting some in the manner they want it, you’d better go fuck yourself – because you ain’t gonna be worth anyone else indulging in nudity with you.

I wouldn’t normally impose such vitriol on this site, but over the weekend we had some cowardly comments posted by a cretin picking on our beloved Shans. (I’ve seen similar comments and nasty digs time and again across the blogosphere, and I just can’t understand what floats the boat of the trolls that leave them behind?) We here at metanotherfrog.com love Shans because she is a dear and slutty friend, who takes time out to share her sex life with our readers to give you guys entertainment, some education maybe and a little voyeuristic thrill. As sex bloggers we put ourselves out there – some for kicks, others for therapy and there are even a few among us who do it because they’re on a crusade to  make the world a better place for the naked.

I write about sex because I love it. Each each of my little missives to you is like the tender caress of my fingers across the page, every comment I get back another “petit mort”. So my advice to those with a darker purpose – go suck cock. Except this time do it with some enthusiasm and maybe both you and your partner will actually enjoy it!

For Shans, With Love  xx,

ER

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