May 18, 2010

A Guest Post by LEZ LEIGH

If you’ve been visiting metanotherfrog.com regularly this month, you’ll know that I’ve already covered the benefits of all day foreplay and picking your very own dick. Well, this week I’ve decided to tackle the theme of Better Sex by encouraging all you women out there to indulge in their fantasies. Don’t be afraid to ask your partner or even some random stranger to help you make your sex dreams come true. Suppressing your desires doesn’t serve anyone, trust me. I suffered for years as a teenager trying to suppress my fantasy life – which always featured hot women – because I thought it was wrong to feel the way I did. I’m here to tell you there is nothing wrong with having fantasies, even if you tend to have girl crushes like me…

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My first girl “crush” was on Samantha Fox (yeah, of “Touch Me” fame). Some boy in my grade six class brought Playboy to school one day and Samantha was on the cover. Before seeing her spread, the only girly mags I’d seen were the ones I stumbled across in my brother’s room and they’d been nothing like this. This was ART. The pages were all glossy and shit. And Samantha’s tits were in a word – INCREDIBLE. I can’t remember what her puff puff looked like, but I’ll always remember her gloriously oiled tits (her magnificent funbags will be imprinted on my brain forever – for eternity). As I looked at her gorgeous twin peaks something shifted inside me and things weren’t the same for me after that.

Later that same year there was a motorcycle show in my hometown and a classmate who went was bragging about all the fun he had one day in class. When he started to describe a big backdrop picture of Heather Locklear clad only in a tiny string bikini as she straddled a bike, I must have let out a moan or something, because he stopped mid sentence and asked,

‘You okay Lez?’

I wanted to shout ‘No, I’m not f@#$%&g ok!!!’, but instead I just nodded and tried to hide my red hot cheeks. I knew no one (including me) would understand what I was going through.

In junior high the attraction I felt to women died down a bit, but was always bubbling beneath the surface. I think the fact that puberty hit during those two years, as well as  all the slow dancing and kissing of boys I did kept me on the ‘straight’ and narrow path, despite my longing for girls.

Lucky for me my parents enrolled me in an ALL girls’ school in downtown Toronto for high school – HEAVEN! Although I dated a short dick guy for most of my time there, daytime was always fun. It was there that I developed my admiration for shapely legs. I got to check out girls of all shapes and sizes in the change rooms (hooray for me). Ahhh, the gloriously well-shaped breasts and firm asses I took in during my time in high school, along with nipples of all different sizes and colours. It was torturous not being able to act on my desire for someof my classmates, but somehow I managed to hold out until I was 19.

That was the year I finally came out and fulfilled my fantasy of dating a girl. Though in retrospect our relationship wasn’t anything to write home about (she was the closest thing to a straight girl I ever dated), after the long and arduous wait I went through before being able to get up close and personal with some pussy, I was totally blissed out whenever I was with her. She was the embodiment of all my childhood and adolescent fantasies – which is why (good or bad) I’ll always remember her as my fantasy girl.

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Now I know most of you reading this, weren’t as cooch obsessed as I was in your younger years. However, I’m sure that if you’re like most people you’re probably sitting on a whole lot of erotic and mind-blowing fantasies for fear of seeming weird or too kinky to your partner(s). But I say enough with the hiding ladies – it’s time you opened up to the idea of exploring your deepest and darkest fantasies. So…

If you’ve been dreaming about strapping one on so you can dominate your man in the bedroom or submit to him during a rape fantasy role play – go for it.

If you have an exhibitionist streak and want to partake in a little dogging or hit a swingers club, I say jump in.

And if you’ve been itching to get next to the hot girl in your spinning class or the cute barista at your local coffee shop you’ve been girl crushing on, for God sakes ask her out already.

Your fantasies (even the girl crushes) are completely normal. So don’t be afraid just go with it. You’ve got nothing to lose and a whole lot of pleasure to gain.

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