Comments on: Cheating in Cyberspace http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/ Sexuality, Dating, Relationships, women, gender, and feminism. Tue, 07 May 2013 01:11:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: nathan0506 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7750 nathan0506 Mon, 17 Oct 2011 18:28:33 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7750 A site dedicated to find a romantic partner for dating is specifically designed for that. A site geared for bowling teams is exactly for that. If you need to talk to friends why not use less inflammatory sites such as Facebook? | :P A site dedicated to find a romantic partner for dating is specifically designed for that. A site geared for bowling teams is exactly for that. If you need to talk to friends why not use less inflammatory sites such as Facebook? | :P
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]]> By: Charlie http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7745 Charlie Sat, 15 Oct 2011 02:26:33 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7745 for me the action isn’t the problem; it’s usually emblematic of something else, perhaps something deeper plaguing them or the relationship. for me the action isn’t the problem; it’s usually emblematic of something else, perhaps something deeper plaguing them or the relationship.
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]]> By: jellyace5 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7740 jellyace5 Thu, 13 Oct 2011 07:20:44 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7740 Very informative blog, thanks for sharing this one. Very informative blog, thanks for sharing this one.
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]]> By: Candy http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7731 Candy Fri, 07 Oct 2011 23:05:45 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7731 if you both MET utilizing an online dating service and have agreed to remove / hide the profiles while being monogamous. People can sugar coat it any way they prefer to be able to get past the reality. Telling themselves they TRUST their monogamous partner on a dating site. Has anyone said this out loud and heard the irony and stupidity of this allowance? There are sites to make friends, find romance, activity partners. A site dedicated to find a romantic partner for dating is specifically designed for that. A site geared for bowling teams is exactly for that. If you need to talk to friends why not use less inflammatory sites such as facebook? Unless the definition of respect and trust has been so diluted and watered down to mean this behavior is acceptable, there is no respect involved. If the one you love is feeding you these excuses and expects you to accept it, then it would be ridiculous to be surprised or hurt should they stray. It is paradoxical to think that being open minded and having trust equals anything goes. Next it will be a case of "they didn't have sex. They just laid naked next to one another. I trust my partner." It's crap. If a person expects monogamy along with reliable (not presumed, tempted) trust, then don't accept them playing with bait. if you both MET utilizing an online dating service and have agreed to remove / hide the profiles while being monogamous.

People can sugar coat it any way they prefer to be able to get past the reality. Telling themselves they TRUST their monogamous partner on a dating site. Has anyone said this out loud and heard the irony and stupidity of this allowance?

There are sites to make friends, find romance, activity partners. A site dedicated to find a romantic partner for dating is specifically designed for that. A site geared for bowling teams is exactly for that. If you need to talk to friends why not use less inflammatory sites such as facebook?

Unless the definition of respect and trust has been so diluted and watered down to mean this behavior is acceptable, there is no respect involved.

If the one you love is feeding you these excuses and expects you to accept it, then it would be ridiculous to be surprised or hurt should they stray.

It is paradoxical to think that being open minded and having trust equals anything goes. Next it will be a case of “they didn’t have sex. They just laid naked next to one another. I trust my partner.”

It’s crap. If a person expects monogamy along with reliable (not presumed, tempted) trust, then don’t accept them playing with bait.

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]]> By: Candy http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7730 Candy Fri, 07 Oct 2011 23:04:47 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7730 It is not about TRUST. It is about RESPECT. Dating site=venue to find a romantic date. Exclusive relationship=monogamy/not dating anyone else. Looking for friends? Why go to a dating site to look for friends while monogamous? Look into a healthy interest group on meet up dot com or your local church, for example. Looking for FRIENDS on a site dedicated to matching people up to DATE is opportunity to - Well, DATE. Trust is believing in someone to treat you with respect. Going to a dating site is disrespectful to the one with whom you are monogamous. If you want out or are thinking about it - get out before you are tempted to check things out. Dating site=looking for a DATE. RINSE. REPEAT. It is not about TRUST. It is about RESPECT.

Dating site=venue to find a romantic date.

Exclusive relationship=monogamy/not dating anyone else.

Looking for friends?

Why go to a dating site to look for friends while monogamous? Look into a healthy interest group on meet up dot com or your local church, for example.

Looking for FRIENDS on a site dedicated to matching people up to DATE is opportunity to – Well, DATE.

Trust is believing in someone to treat you with respect. Going to a dating site is disrespectful to the one with whom you are monogamous.

If you want out or are thinking about it – get out before you are tempted to check things out.

Dating site=looking for a DATE.

RINSE. REPEAT.

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]]> By: Ann-ann http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7722 Ann-ann Wed, 05 Oct 2011 18:39:11 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7722 Cool, like what you said life is too short, so enjoy your life.. Cool, like what you said life is too short, so enjoy your life..
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]]> By: Cynthia http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7697 Cynthia Thu, 15 Sep 2011 09:26:53 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7697 You have a great post! Be ware of karma.. You have a great post! Be ware of karma..
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]]> By: cleopatra05 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7696 cleopatra05 Wed, 14 Sep 2011 10:47:44 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7696 When you're on a serious relationship, you must take care of your partner because loving someone is hard to lose. When you’re on a serious relationship, you must take care of your partner because loving someone is hard to lose.
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]]> By: Harriet Bond http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-7003 Harriet Bond Sat, 19 Feb 2011 10:49:51 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-7003 It's so difficult on internet dating sites to tell who people really are, but I suppose if you are careful and look out for red flags when you are getting to know someone, it will be obvious to you if they are in a relationship already, and you can make a sharp exit before any real harm is done. It does seem incredible to me that people would be so barefaced, but I suppose I am lucky not to have encountered this in my personal life. I see it all the time in my professional life however, to know it does happen all the time (private investigation!).... My current blog series is all about infidelity.... read the new episode today at www.harrietbond.com It’s so difficult on internet dating sites to tell who people really are, but I suppose if you are careful and look out for red flags when you are getting to know someone, it will be obvious to you if they are in a relationship already, and you can make a sharp exit before any real harm is done. It does seem incredible to me that people would be so barefaced, but I suppose I am lucky not to have encountered this in my personal life. I see it all the time in my professional life however, to know it does happen all the time (private investigation!)….
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]]> By: Alex http://www.metanotherfrog.com/2011/02/15/tic1/#comment-6963 Alex Thu, 17 Feb 2011 08:21:05 +0000 http://www.metanotherfrog.com/?p=8042#comment-6963 Damn, kid: "To me, infidelity is usually a symptom, not the disease." That truth is so hard and just so... effing true. Damn. @skye - To me, this is simply a barometer and serious gut check. When the heart is involved it clouds all that we do. Yet, simply having the profile isn't enough to cut off a relationship. What do they do with it? Well, that's sorta the key... Isn't it? Damn, kid: “To me, infidelity is usually a symptom, not the disease.” That truth is so hard and just so… effing true. Damn.

@skye – To me, this is simply a barometer and serious gut check. When the heart is involved it clouds all that we do. Yet, simply having the profile isn’t enough to cut off a relationship. What do they do with it? Well, that’s sorta the key… Isn’t it?
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