January 24, 2012

JON PRESSICK

What about a fine for him?

Okay, this story boils down to one thing: lack of respect for sex workers.

Let’s see, dude goes into a strip club, gets himself $100 worth of shimmy and shake dances. Of course, there is the potential that he got more in that booth, I’m not going to sugarcoat that. Regardless, services of some sort were rendered, and the agreed upon monetary transaction was not forthcoming.

He ran out without paying.

She smashed him with a beer bottle.

Now she’s going to jail for nine months.

I’m not going to defend her actions, but this jerk had it coming to him. This was a dine-and-dash of the meanest kind. He had no right to stiff her after she’d gotten him stiff. Even though private dances in strip clubs are legal, what was she to do? Call the police? That is what restaurant owners can do if they catch you trying to sneak away without paying. That’s what can happen to shoplifters. But I highly doubt strippers will get the same cordial treatment.

When I used to be a more frequent patron of the naked ballet, I found it embarrassing and disgusting the way a good number of the other visitors would treat the entertainers. They were rude, crude and grossly lewd. I know the whole spectacle is ribald, but you don’t need to be nasty about it. Guys would openly mock women if they didn’t like their bodies. They would hurl insults and degrade the dancers. It was awful and I didn’t and still don’t understand why it happens.

Oh wait, I do. Men don’t value strippers as people. Just objects. And that thought is revolting.

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Huh, who knew? Seems the little bud of pleasure is actually a much bigger organ of orgasm! Though, why are we only learning about this now? Considering how much humans think about sex, you’d think we’d be studying it all the time. But oddly enough, we don’t. We don’t spend remotely enough time or resources on the act that is the origin of our existence.

Because of this, it really isn’t too surprising that it was only a couple years ago that researchers discovered that the clitoris is a much larger and more complex organ in female sexual pleasure. When excited, a woman’s clit engorges and wraps the vagina in a hug of pleasure. This can possibly put an end to the debate between clitoral/vaginal cums. It would seem they are all clitoral!

I do love the analogy in the article that the little glans, the tip of the clit we can see (and rub and lick and vibrate) on the outside is just like the tip of iceberg. However, unlike icebergs, the clit is nothing to fear! Instead, it is a harbinger of great things to come. Now that researchers have started to study female sexual organs a little more, we might finally learn more about how women are pleased sexually.

Hot clit off the starboard bow!

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Most would agree that when it comes to sex straight men rarely get the short of end the stick. Or in this case, the short end because of their dick.

But how much do I love the fantastic Nikki Brown for pointing out that dudes aren’t “allowed” to experiment with other dudes. In our society, guys are expected to fuck women or, with a bit of expanded acceptance, other guys. That is all. Why, even on this fine site, there’s been debate back and forth as to whether a guy can go back to getting pussy once he’s gotten his dick wet in a dude’s mouth.

While there is certainly room for debate as to the societal motivation behind encouraging women to explore sexuality, there is no doubt that women have a greater degree of freedom when it comes to trying new things. Sure, guys encourage it for their own thrills, I won’t debate that. But if a woman was to reveal she has tried some lady loving but chooses to stay with men, she is not degraded and considered less. In contrast, there’s no chance a man can suck balls and not always be considered gay, in some respect.

So, I’m all behind Nikki and her words here. Everyone should be given the opportunity—without anyone questioning their sexuality—to try what they want to try. So many different flavours out there. Take a good slurp of them all!

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And I’m going to leave you this month with some sexy eye candy! HOT HOT HOT!

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