5 Pieces of Relationship Advice to Read Before You Fall in Love

Science recently found that love truly is blind.

According to research conducted by the Wellcome Department of Imaging Neuroscience at the University College London, when both men and women are caught up in the initial passionate phase of falling in love, overlapping activity throughout various parts of the human brain causes them to ignore negative emotions as it simultaneously impairs their ability to make solid social judgments about their new love interest.

In other words, no matter how much relationship advice you’ve memorized by heart, your brain’s chemistry is wired to make you throw it out the window and go gaga for that new guy or girl.

To improve your self-confidence and help you build healthy, sustainable long-term relationships, it’s crucial to remember that your typical good judgment is impaired during the early and exciting stages of dating and getting to know someone new.

In order to do that, it’s helpful to keep some helpful hints on hand and glance back at them from time to time. Here are five seriously important pieces of relationship advice both men and women ignore way too often when they’re caught up in the chemical rush that comes along with falling in love.

1. Take it slow and avoid making major decisions too early.

Beginning with our earliest experiences as infants, bonding with others occurs over time and not overnight. Parents learn about their children by attuning to their inner world and responding appropriately. If a parent tries forcing their own agenda or attempts to rush the bond, an insecure attachment forms, setting a stage for instability and relationship problems throughout the child’s life. Likewise, in order to create secure self-love, we need to be slow and gentle with ourselves. By learning to be slow and patient with ourselves, we learn to be slow and patient as we form a romantic relationship.

Making any type of major commitment, including marriage, cohabitation, and a having a baby, when you’re still in the early stages of a relationship is unwise. You simply cannot rely on your own judgment about such serious decisions when that intoxicating mix of hormones is running through your body. Instead, you must play the role of a sober parent setting boundaries for their immature child (i.e., you).

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The Best Dating Tips and Relationship Advice: 15 Life-Changing Tips You Need to Know

“You have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince!”

How many times has that phrase been cheerfully offered after a bad date (or three)? Dating can be so stressful that it sometimes feels like you’re taking a year off of your life every time you put yourself out there. There may be many times when you’re tempted to quit. Times when you want to just call the whole thing off, where you resign yourself to the fact that maybe you’ll just end up alone.

You may commiserate with your single friends by swapping dating horror stories. While these can be comical when told to an audience afterward, living through them is boring, at best. At worst – it’s frightening and sometimes downright torturous.

MORE: The Truth About Playing Games and the Chase

We come up with positive clichés to pass around in the hopes of making the exhausting struggle seem commonplace. Sometimes this works, and other times it just feels more depressing.

But the truth is, there is a way to make dating more enjoyable and to gain from the experience, rather than feeling like you’re losing your dignity and your mind. With the right tips and the right things to keep in mind, you can actually learn a lot about yourself, and maybe even find that special someone.

Here are some tips for navigating modern dating.

The Best Dating Tips To Change Your Life

1. Choose wisely

You might think it sounds unromantic to weigh the pros and cons of falling for someone. It’s definitely not what the fifteen-year-old girl falling for her motorcycle-wielding, leather-jacket-wearing neighbor does. But how often does that scenario pan out well? With some age comes some wisdom. You learn not to roll the dice on someone who isn’t worth your time.

Dating Tips for Finding the Right Person

Obstacles to finding love

Are you single and looking for love? Are you finding it hard to meet the right person? When you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to become discouraged or buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships.

Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests, learning how to enjoy your own company, and appreciating the quiet moments of solitude. However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also seem frustrating.

For many of us, our emotional baggage can make finding the right romantic partner a difficult journey. Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists. Or maybe your dating history consists only of brief flings and you don’t know how to make a relationship last. You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past. Or maybe you’re not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don’t feel confident enough.

Whatever the case may be, you can overcome your obstacles. Even if you’ve been burned repeatedly or have a poor track record when it comes to dating, these tips can help put you on the path to finding a healthy, loving relationship that lasts.

Read more www.helpguide.org

20 People on the Best Relationship Advice They Ever Received

Among the ups, the downs, the way, way ups, and the oh-no-do-we-need-to-break-up downs, it’s no secret that relationships are tough. But the sweet reward of being loved and getting to love someone in return is what inspires all of us to navigate these choppy waters. Sometimes, though, we need help figuring it out. We asked the Cut’s readers to anonymously share the best relationship advice they’ve ever received. Below, their pearls of wisdom.

1. My mom, who has been with my father for 47 years, once said to me: “I’m not always in love with your father, but I always love him. And I’m always surprised when I fall back in love with him.” I’ve been with my husband for 12 years. Because of my mom’s advice, I don’t panic when we’re going through a tough time; I look forward to falling in love with my husband again. And that moment is usually not sexy, like when one of our kids vomits in the middle of the night and he gets up to help me clean it up and then touches my foot with his foot when we finally climb back into bed. That’s love.

2. That I cannot choose to prioritize the desires, whims, or life choices of a significant other at the expense of losing my sense of self. If I become the best version of who my partner wants me to be (or who I think he wants me to be), I’m camouflaging all those wonderful parts of me that exist with or without that person.

3. When you get married, make sure the person you choose is someone you’d not only want to marry but also to divorce. For me, it highlights the importance of choosing someone who is gentle, caring, and good-hearted not only in the good times but also in the bad times.

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Review: Bunny Bliss

The Good:

  • 100% pure silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

The Bad:

  • Buzzy & weak vibration
  • Noisy

Intensity Level:   2/5      Noise Level:   3.5/5

Shape / Size:

Bunny Bliss is a clitoral vibrator of moderate size, rechargeable intended for ultimate convenience and control. It’s a very simple toy to maneuver and fits in one’s hand’s palm beautifully. It’s shaped like the head of a bunny, and I believe it’s pretty cute… unless it has eyes, but anything.  The tip’s bunny ears invite females to experience accurate clitoral stimulation.

  • Total length – 6 inches
  • Length of ears – 1 inch
  • Circumference around the bunny nose – 4 1/4 inches
  • Circumference around the base – 5 1/2 inches
Controls / Vibrations:

the control buttons are situated at the bottom of the vibrator area. This vibrator is controlled by two buttons. Pressing the buttons is very simple and their place is perfectly positioned where you can readily adjust the vibrations without distractions. The bottom button is the energy button which turns on and off the item. The top button is the mode button, and each time you press it, that button will alter the vibration velocity or pattern. The Bunny Bliss has 10 different patterns of vibration, which is something I don’t really use, but the function I like.

The vibrations were the greatest disappointment. I discovered the vibrations highly buzzy, and they’re not that powerful either. In my side, I could feel more of a buzz than I could in the bunny ear tips. I also realized that at the bunny’s nose the vibrations were strongest. I was supposed to attempt using the bunny ears, but I kept running back to the bunny’s nose. I was able to put a lot of pressure on the nose as well, and I’m someone who likes to put a lot of stress on it, so it was a plus.


The Bunny Bliss is 100% silicone-pure. With a soft, smooth, durable and silky smooth satin finish to the outside, it is phthalate-free.  While the part that comes into contact with you is made of silicone, a shiny silver plastic is the base region that surrounds the controls.

There was one problem I had about this product’s content. It feels like the seams begin to divide when you bend the bunny ears. I’m worried that the silicone will finally break.

Keeping it safe:

The Bunny Bliss comes with its own pouch to store it inside, making it simple and convenient to store this toy. The Storage back is extremely adorable enough to store both the vibrator and the charging adapter inside it. At the end of the ties, I enjoy the bows, they are really adorable. Because the Bunny Bliss is made of silicone, make sure that this vibrator uses only water-based lubricants. Sometimes you can discover silicone lubricants of high quality that can be used with silicone toys, but make sure you do a spot test before hand.

Keep it Clean:

Because this vibrator is waterproof, it’s simple to clean. First, make sure you close the charging port, then wash it with soap and water, or a toy cleaner of your choice.  There are many seams and crevices, so make sure these places are very well cleaned.


The Bunny Bliss can be charged for 1.5 hours before first use. Compared to many other rechargeable toys I own, that’s hardly a wait. I certainly suggest charging your rechargeable toys whenever suggested by the manufacturer. They also suggest that your item be fully charged and drained to extend the battery life, with which I also highly agree! The charge time is still anywhere from 1–1.5 hours after the original charge. Then, with your toy, you get 90 minutes of playtime. The method of charging is very easy.  Just insert the adapter at the bottom of the vibrator by opening the port, and voilà. Because the Bunny Bliss is waterproof, you want to make sure the charging port is closed safely before it gets wet.


I haven’t really shouted anything about this toy ‘ luxurious,’ except perhaps the packaging. It comes packaged in a high-quality, storage-perfect box. It opens & closes magnetically, and inside there is a piece of foam that completely houses the Bunny Bliss. You can remove the piece of foam and store the loader below. I’m having a difficult time throwing away boxes like this, but since it arrived with a storage bag, I’m sure I’m going to toss the box at last. A tiny pamphlet with loading and cleaning data is included with the toy.

I would like to thank Blush Novelties for free supplying me with this item for an honest and unbiased evaluation.  By clicking on the banner below, you can visit Blush Novelties and find out where you can find their products. You can buy it here on Amazon as well.

Review: G-vibe

The Good:

  • Unique Design
  • Male & Female friendly
  • Soft, silky-smooth silicone

The Bad:

  • All intended uses may not work for everyone
  • Vibrations are barely average & buzzy

Overall Rating:

Noise Level:  3/5        Intensity Level:  3/5



The G-Vibe is a distinctive, rechargeable, high-quality vibrator friendly to both males and females. It is a dual vibrator of stimuli and can be used in various respects. If you’re watching this toy and wondering how do I use this thing to the hell? Don’t be afraid. The G-Vibe comes with comprehensive pictures showing you all the various methods you can use the toy.

One way of using the G-vibe is to combine the two prongs and insert them simultaneously into the vagina. This way, using the G-vibe provides you a very complete impression (at least for me), but the first time you use it, it can feel a bit awkward. I had to get used to the distinctive sensation of pushing at the same moment against both my G-spot and my G-spot’s reverse side. I wonder why they marked it in the diagram as a P-spot, too? Hmm.

Another way you can use the G-vibe is to vaginally insert one prong and anally insert the other. I’m not playing anal, but it feels like it’s going to work well. The handle is very comfortable to understand, but the two prongs that touch each other are the one thing I’d be cautious about. They aren’t extremely flimsy, but when you mess around with it, it’s not all that difficult to push them together.

Probably my favourite way of using the G-vibe was to insert one prong into the vagina and use the other prong to rub over the clitoris. Although some things can still be enhanced. It was really hard to put pressure on the clitoris, and I really wanted to massage my G-spot with the prong that was inside me. That’s when I want the material to be firmer and the vibrations to be much stronger.

It’s perfect to use the G-vibe to stimulate both sides of the clitoris when you’re fucking your favorite dildo or being fucked by your significant other. I don’t worry all that much about patterns, but I liked using them this way when using the G-vibe. When using it this way, you can also apply a little more pressure to the clitoris.

It was totally out of the question for me to use the G-vibe in this precise situation. It will likely differ for everyone, but my nipples are not close to each other, and the prongs are certainly not long enough to achieve both of my nipples.

It demonstrates you the various ways a person can appreciate the G-vibe in these next few images. I can’t tell you precisely how it would feel, of course, but I can tell you how it works and offer you advice on how to use it as well.

It demonstrates in this image both G-vibe prongs stimulating the two sides of the shaft from below. You might even run it along the shaft’s top. You can slide the G-vibe up and down along the penis shaft if you add some lubrication. If you use it with a partner, you can placed the G-vibe in the precise place shown in the picture while sucking / clicking / teasing the penis head.

This is basically the same precise position as in picture 4, except in this picture it indicates that a partner is using it.

This picture demonstrates the G-vibe stimulating the balls from below on both sides. This feels like having some stimulation on the balls while jerking off or having a blow job would be a ideal position.




A USB charging cord charges the G-vibe. Use a laptop or a USB charger adapter to charge it. The charging port is at the base of the toy and you need to raise the plug-like piece of silicone to plug in the charger. When charging the toy, the buttons on the toy light up (and during use). When charging, they flash and remain solid once charging is completed. Make sure that you safely plug that piece back into the charging port when you’re finished charging the toy. That’s not going to ruin it with water.

The G-vibe’s initial charge time is 8 hours. With all my experience with rechargeable toys, when I follow the original charging times, I discovered that I get the greatest outcomes in life. You are supposed to have a single charge for 4 hours of playtime, but it can vary depending on the level of vibrations you use. I used the greatest environment of my G-vibe and I got out of it about 3 hours of playtime. It takes about 45 minutes to an hour for all charges after your initial charge, I didn’t precisely time it.


On the FunToys page, I was able to discover data about the material. It says on their website that the G-vibe is made of hypoallergenic and ecologically secure, high-quality, premium medical silicone.

My G-vibe material experience was nothing but enjoyable. When I opened the box, the first thing I did was run my fingers along the toy’s silky-smooth body. The silicone is extremely soft, and my fingers glide through it without effort. I even rubbed it against my face because it feels smooth. Honestly, there is hardly any drag to it at all. The second thing I did was run my nose along the toy to see if there was any unpleasant smell, and it wasn’t there. I haven’t done a flame test or anything, but there’s nothing to make me believe the G-vibe isn’t 100% silicone.


The complete length of the G-vibe is 9 inches long, including the handle. The length of insertion is just over 6 inches and the G-vibe’s circumference is just over 4 inches. The length of the prongs is 3 1/2 inches long, from tip to split. The space between the two prongs is between 3 1/2 and 4 inches from tip to tip. It can divided between 6 and 6 1/2 inches if you put pressure on the prongs and split them yourself. This will inform you if you can boost both nipples with the G-vibe at the same moment.


There are two engines in the G-vibe, one at each prong’s tip. I thought the vibrations were strong when I held the vibrator in my hand, but that wasn’t the case when I went to the bedroom to actually use it. The vibrations on the ground are scarcely average, buzzy, and mostly felt. I’m someone who likes to apply pressure, and because the vibrations aren’t so deep, when I tried to apply pressure, it didn’t work well for me. All it really did was let me crave for something a little more powerful.

The G-vibe has 6 distinct patterns of vibration, and I included a image directly from their website showing you how the 6 distinct vibrations function. The picture is very true to the patterns of vibration.

When you first switch it on, the noise level is very quiet, but you can hear a very noticeable buzzing noise once you get to the greatest environment. Once inserted or muffled by other components of the body, the noise level drops a bit.


G-vibe controls are simple to use and are widely used on many other toys. There are 3 buttons at the base of the toy that regulate the intensity and bring you through the various patterns. The”+” button powers the toy and improves the vibration intensity, the-” “button reduces the vibrations and pushes off the toy, and the button in the center with the squiggly line on it scrolls through the various vibration patterns.

Keeping It Clean:

The G-vibe is waterproof and not waterproof at 100 percent. I don’t even want to take that opportunity to use it in the water, but when cleaning without any worries, you should be able to get it wet. Make sure that the plug over the charging port is safely closed and create sure that when cleaning that portion of the toy you are cautious and conscious. The G-vibe can be readily cleaned with a mild soap in hot water or with your toy cleaner selection. Do not cook it or place it in the dishwasher.

Keeping it safe / Packaging:

The G-vibe comes with a storage pouch, so finding something inside to store your G-vibe isn’t a problem. The storage pouch is a slim, white cloth to keep it closed with a red drawstring at the top. It is not covered or anything, but it is ideal for the inside storage of the G-vibe.  I was pleased to have included a pouch for storage. The G-vibe is very beautifully packaged as far as packaging is concerned. It’s a sturdy box and the G-vibe has a ideal place to sit down, so it would work perfectly for storage.

My Experience:

While I haven’t loved this toy, I’ve had a lot of fun reviewing it and experimenting with all the distinct ways you can use it. There have been some methods that have worked for me, and others that have not. It was a little awkward for me the first couple of occasions when I attempted to clamp the prongs together and insert them both at the same moment. It felt just…. awkward. Upon lastly getting used to the sensation, I noticed more full sensation than I expected. It worked best for me to insert the one prong inside of me and let the other prong rest on my clitoris. It was still missing, but it’s just how I liked to make the best use of it. I haven’t used this toy with a partner, but it seems like when you use it with a partner it would be most pleasant. Sure, it can take something like a blow job and kick it up a knot.

I would like to thank FunToys personally for the opportunity to review the G-vibe. If you are interested in buying the G-vibe, you can do so by visiting and contacting their website directly.

In return for an unbiased evaluation, this item was given free of charge. This evaluation follows the rules of the FTC.

Review: Charlie Tango (One of the Safest in its Class)

The Good:

A good novelty for fans of 50 Shades of Grey
•Comes with a storage pouch

The Bad:

•Weak vibrations
•Paint(?) rubs off/chips
•Collects fingerprints

Intensity Level:  3/5           Noise Level:  2/5

If you’re interested in this toy, I’m assuming you’re a fan of the 50 Gray Shades series. If you enjoyed the book, you’ll probably appreciate this vibrator’s novelty. If you hated the book completely, you’re probably going to pretend you haven’t even seen this vibrator, and you’re going on around your day. Probably it’s better to look at another vibrator. Toy collectors are most probable to discover this toy in their collection very boring and not worthy of being. I’m going to be completely frank and I’m going to say I totally purchased this toy because I loved the book and I liked the name Charlie Tango. Lame, I understand that. With that being said, I pledge not to let this vibrator’s review affect my love for the book. Just because I loved the book, that doesn’t imply that I will enjoy the sex toys Charlie Tango.

The true Charlie Tango:

You know everything about Charlie Tango when you read 50 Shades of Grey. Charlie Tango is an EC 135 Eurocopter for those of you who haven’t read the book. One of its class’s safest.

Charlie Tango is your traditional vibrator, your standard. It’s good for using it alone or with a partner, and it’s best used for penetrative stimulation, though, I would use it only vaginally and recommend that you don’t use it anally because of its absence of a flared base. This is just your average vibrator, which is likely most attractive to the book’s supporters.


Charlie Tango is made entirely of silver, brilliant plastic. Plastic is soft, firm, not bending or giving out. It is non-porous, hypoallergenic, free of phthalates, and a secure material for the whole body. This plastic material is totally odorless and attracts no lint or hair. This vibrator gathers fingerprints instead of gathering hair or lint. Overall, for everyone, it is a secure material.

The Charlie Tango is totally smooth and to the touch cool. Charlie Tango’s name is written along this vibrator’s shaft. Even though this text isn’t raised, when you run your finger over it, you can still feel it’s there. Honestly, I’m not sure what the name is all about. It might be painted on, and if that’s the case, I wouldn’t doubt if after a while it began chiping off. It states “50 Shades of Grey” on the toy foundation, and as you can see, rubbing off is already beginning.

Charlie Tango is a conventional, classic vibrator, as I stated earlier. It’s precisely what a vibrator might look like.  Probably the size of this vibrator is most attractive to those who just experiment with sex toys or seek something easy. The complete length is 7 inches long, 6 of which are insertable. The widest point for Charlie Tango is 3 1/4 inches in circumference. For those who like a lot of girth, this vibrator is likely not the best choice. This vibrator’s head is gently tapered to make the insertion very convenient. Because of its popular and well-known shape, I don’t see it as discreet, but it’s something you could readily travel with.

Functions & Controls:

2 AA batteries are taken from Charlie Tango. It’s like any other traditional vibrator to insert that batteries. Remove the base, insert the batteries (first positive end), and then tightly screw back on the foundation to guarantee watertightness. Just twist the end of the base in a clockwise direction to raise the amount of vibrations to get Charlie Tango going. It’s a really simple to use toy and it’s simple to figure it out. There are no patterns to scroll through and there are no to mess with buttons.


The vibration quality is quite decent given that it is a vibrator operated by the battery. It really relies on what kind of vibrations you like if you like the Charlie Tango or not. Throughout the toy, the vibrations can be mildly felt but they are nearer to the vibrator’s tip. Charlie Tango provides a pleasant rumbly vibration, but not all that powerful, at least not powerful enough to my liking. The Charlie Tango is scarcely an intensity of 3 out of 5. With not much energy, not much noise emerges. When used at the greatest environment, it’s fairly quiet and I doubt anyone could hear it through a closed door.

Cleaning & Maintenance:

This classic vibrator is 100% waterproof and can be used in the shower, bath, swimming pool or whirlpool. Because it is waterproof, it makes cleaning a very easy toy. I use my favourite cleaner toy, but with a gentle soap and hot water you could also wash it. I always wip it with toy wipes because I hate the fingerprints, they really make it look dirty. You can use Charlie Tango with lubricants based on water or silicone. I like using a warm lubricant because at first the vibrator material can sometimes get a little cold.


Charlie Tangocomes well packaged in a cardboard box that is recyclable and indiscreet. On the back of the box there is a brief description of the toy, but it also includes a small insert that tells you how to insert the batteries and use your toy. There’s really no need to maintain your packaging as Charlie Tango comes with its own 50 Gray Satin Storage Pocket Shades.

Echo Handle by Tantus Review

The Good:
• 100% pure silicone
• Ergonomic handle
• Long length
• Flexibility
• Easy to clean and take care of

The Bad:
• I honestly can’t find any cons.

The Echo Handle is a high quality sex toy that is non-vibrating.  It is the perfect toy for targeting the G-Spot, thrusting, and also a useful option for those with longer lengths looking for something. It’s good for those who like to take control, because with this dildo you can definitely do that. If you asked me, I’d say that this dildo is ideal for customers of all levels of knowledge. Beginners shouldn’t let this dildo’s lengthy duration intimidate them. If you are cautious, you can even use this toy anally. The flare at the base is not very defined, but this can be used securely anally due to the lengthy duration and handle. Just be careful and cautious.

Material / Text:

The Echo Handle is 100% silicone-pure. I enjoy all about silicone Tantus. Tantus toys are secure, non-toxic, hypoallergenic and phthlate-free. They are also odorless, and many ways can be washed. This silicone fabric will not cause irritation or infection, so it will benefit those with delicate skin. It’s very long lasting, the best thing about this stuff. If you take care of your dildo correctly, it can last your whole life.  This dildo’s shaft is covered with a ribbed / wavy texture. The texture of the ribbed is very exciting! It’s very subtle, not abrasive at all.

  •  Total length: 11 1/2 inches
  • Inserted length: 7 1/2 inches
  • Handle length: 4 inches
  • Circumference: 4 1/2 inches (at the widest stage)
Shape / Size / Design:

Echo handle is long and versatile, with ergonomic handle. Due to the lengthy duration, you can easily control / manipulate all of this toy’s movements. The flexibility makes targeting your G-Spot very simple, and the rounded head also works fantastically to massage and hit the G-Spot. At the bottom of the shaft, right above the handle, this dildo is most versatile. The shaft is not as flexible as it is. The lengthy duration and flexibility enables you to use this dildo comfortably while in many distinct roles. I could just hit the correct places, all alone.

The ergonomic handle is great fucking and my favourite characteristic of this toy is by far. The handle is ribbed for hand positioning, making grasping and holding very simple and comfortable. Unless I use a lot of lube, the handle doesn’t slide out of my hand. That’s when things get slippery. I’m trying to prevent getting the best I can on the handle too much lubricant.


The Echo Handle comes in a clear case you can see straight through, and it’s the least discreet. There’s a lot of data on the secure quality of Tantus toys on the packaging. It’s not the perfect location to store your new toy, but if you want to do that, you can maintain it for storage. If you don’t want the packaging to be kept, you can recycle it instead.

Keeping it Clean:

The excellent thing about this material is that as I stated earlier, you can clean it many ways. This material can be bleached, cooked or tossed into the dishwasher, which is good if you intend to share or use this toy vaginally as well as anally. I suggest a dishwasher because fitting this dildo into a pot can be hard. If you don’t share or use this toy anally, you can simply wash it with soap and water or clean it with your selection of toy.

I want to thank Tantus for the opportunity to review the Echo Handle. By clicking on the banner I supplied below, you can buy this item on the Tantus website.

In return for an unbiased evaluation, this item was given free of charge. This evaluation follows the rules of the FTC.

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys – Review & Giveaway

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Foreword by Charlie Glickman PhD
$14.95, Trade Paper
168 pages, 5½” x 8″
ISBN: 978-1-57344-972-4

The Good:
• Informative for beginners
• Good for couples
• Easy to read
• Lots of helpful tips

The Bad:
• Boring read for the more experienced sex toy user.

The Adventurous Couple’s Sex Toys Guide will go beyond all the basics, and even a little bit more. It’s simple to read, witty and informative. This is a book that will assist couples interact on the subject of sex toys, and hopefully it will assist to stimulate couple discussion.

For me, it’s a book I’d skip in and just read the chapters I’m interested in or will most help me. If you and your partner have never before used a sex toy, or if you’re attempting to persuade a partner to use sex toys, it would be a ideal book for you to read from cover to cover. It will inform you all you need to understand about using sex toys, finding the correct toy for you, using secure equipment, and other significant data I wish I knew when I first began exploring using sex toys myself.

Chapter One–Basic Models, and Your Toys Care and Feeding The first chapter is very fundamental. It begins to inform you shortly how far sex toys have gone over the last twenty years and how much safer choices are available from these days. Then it begins to cover a lot of the basics; you have to choose from the distinct toys, what they do, how to operate them, and how to maintain them clean. You will also learn significant stuff such as the use of secure materials and phthalate avoidance.

Chapter Two–First Time Toys and Gifts This is a good chapter for someone searching with their partner for the best manner to start using sex toys. It goes beyond the distinct types of toys you can choose from, and it goes beyond a lot of basics about what they are going to do for you and your partner.  It also provides you tips on how to start providing as a donation sex toys and advice on selecting the correct one.

Chapter Three–Come Together This is just another nice chapter of introduction for couples just starting out. Again, it’s about bringing sex toys in the heat of the moment, except this time. This section can assist create stuff the first time not as awkward.

Chapter Four–Kinky Toys for Two Chapter 4 does a excellent job of introducing / explaining toys on the kinky side of the game. It gives you some useful tips on what you can’t purchase and where to purchase quality toys. This section will only be exciting and helpful to those who are unfamiliar with BDSM but want to explore for the very first time using kinky toys in the bedroom.

Chapter Five–Strap-Ons and Bend Over Boyfriend This chapter is for you if you’ve ever tried to switch roles / Pegging. It will go over the various strap-ons and dildos variants and discover one that suits and feels correct. It also involves a lot of advice with your fresh dick on fun things you can do. I discovered that reading this chapter was a lot of fun.

Chapter Six–Teledildonic Toys: Online Sex for Two Teledildonics is also known as cyberdildonics, which are computer-controllable digital sex toys to achieve orgasm. You will learn about USB sex toys in this section, and how the internet is a whole fresh sex world. It’ll inform you about webcams as well and offer you some sexy tips on webcams. This is a nice chapter for you to read if you’re someone fresh and interested in the webcam globe.

Chapter Seven–I have always been interested in sex machines, so I was really interested in reading this chapter. If you don’t know what a sex machine is, this section will explain precisely what it is. It will also inform you how to appreciate a sex machine, as well as the best locations to buy one. Sex machines are really costly, so before you ever purchase one, do your studies.

Chapter Eight–Exotic Sex Toy The more exotic sex toys you can find on the market like glass, metal, stone, etc. You’ll also read about making some cool animal-shaped / exotic dildos.

Chapter Nine–Sex Furniture This chapter brought me to a lot of sex furnishings that I have never before heard of or seen. It also goes into some BDSM accessories briefly, such as furniture such as products such as bondage beds. This section contains a lot of fun things and they certainly worth reading, in my view.

Chapter Ten–Smart Shop and Recommend Resources You will find useful resources / guides for things like online shopping, safe sex, and other recommendations for reading. This is certainly a chapter that I see in the future looking back on.

This was a very simple reading overall. For someone fresh to the globe of sex toys, it’s certainly a book. I enjoyed all the tips you get from this book. You will discover that there is a tiny section in many of the sections that provides you tips that are worth reading. That’s probably one of my favorite things about this book, I don’t think I’m all experienced, so it’s been a good reading for me. I also have many friends to suggest this book.

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The Sex Toys Guide of the Adventurous Couple By Violet Blue Feeling adventurous? Violet Blue, the bestselling writer and leading sex education pundit, describes in this witty and well-informed guide how to choose and use sex toys to play and explore together — and have mind-blowing sex. The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys also features fresh material from renowned Dr. Charlie Glickman that helps couples redefine their time alone. For sex toy novices and experienced lovers alike, Violet provides advice on creative use and thoughts to introduce sex toys to a relationship.

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Shades of Grey Ben-Wa Balls Review

 The Good:
• Discreet
• Easy to clean
•Travel friendly

The Bad:
• Can barely feel them inside me
• Small & not very easy to remove
• For the more experienced user

This was my very first use of Ben-Wa Balls, and I’m going to begin by stating this specific couple is likely not the perfect option for the first moment people using a kegel balls. I’d suggest something that’s bigger, more linked, and that has some sort of cord to retrieve. I get the hang of these Ben-Wa Balls gently.

Kegel balls are of great benefit to females. Ben-Wa Balls ‘ aim is to assist reinforce and tighten the muscles of the kegel. As far as enjoyment goes, during use these still have to offer me any kind of pleasurable feeling.

It was very simple for me to insert the Ben-Wa Balls. My kegel muscles are already quite powerful, so I could use my muscles to maintain them inside me. When I simultaneously put both balls in, I had a difficult time keeping them in location. They were so tiny I could hardly feel them. Mostly when they fell out, I felt them. Since I was having a difficult time using both at the same moment, I decided to try just one ball. For me, this was much easier. I was able to contract and maintain my kegel muscle in location around the one ball. As for now, I continue to use the one ball and hope to be able to use both balls simultaneously eventually. I haven’t had these very long, and to get used to them, I just need some time. To remove these balls, there is no recovery cord, so you have to fish them on your own. The more you use them, you will discover what works best for you.

They have a good quantity of weight for the Shades of Grey Ben-Wa Balls. It comes with nothing to say they weigh heavily, but after doing some internet studies and comparing it to other balls just like them, I’d say they weigh 0.2 lb. I’m trying 3 times a day to use my kegel sticks for 10-15 minutes at a moment. I can feel the exercise my kegel muscles received afterwards.


Grey Ben-Wa Balls ‘ shades are very tiny in size. They have a circumference of 2 1/2 inches, and no greater than a quarter.  For those who are experienced using kegel balls, these tiny balls are certainly. I would suggest that consumers go with a kegel ball for the first time, which is larger and easier to contract with your muscles.


A gold metal is made of these balls. Obviously they are not real gold, but they are most probably plated gold. I still have to notice any kind of fading or chipping, but this may occur. I haven’t had these very long, as I said earlier. If you’re a metal allergic person, these Ben-Wa Balls won’t work for you. I personally had no responses to the metal material. What I enjoy most about the fabric is that it’s cool to the touch, but almost as soon as I insert it maintains my body heat.

Keeping Them Clean:

Cleaning Grey Ben-Wa Balls Shades is a easy process. They are a number of ways to clean them. You can clean metal with soap and water, boil it on the stove, bleach it with a 10% bleach and water solution, or put it through the dishwasher. Using with any type of lubricant is also secure.

Keeping Them Safe / Packaging:

The Shades of Grey Ben-Wa Balls come packaged in a cardboard box and are placed inside a sort of packaging plastic clam-shell. To store them inside, it doesn’t come with a pouch, but I would definitely suggest storing them inside some sort of pouch. You can just keep them in the clam-shell packaging if you don’t have a pocket to store them inside.

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