JON PRESSICK Getting snipped was the best decision I ever made. It also lead to one of my funniest stories. More on that in a minute. As far as getting a vasectomy being a good lifestyle choice, I do need to put that into perspective. I was the ideal candidate to get the slice done. My ex and I had just...


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SAM SHARPE I enjoy few things as much as I enjoy shooting the sh** with my boys. Unfortunately for me, the vast majority of my boys are cooped up, locked in, domesticated--or what civilians call married. This means that our reasoning sessions, once more regular than a vegetarian with a bran muffin a day habit, are now so infrequent they tend to only happen on special occasions. Like birthdays. Or bachelor parties. Or to record podcasts.

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A Guest Post by DORIANNE “Have another glass of Pinot?” William asked Ritika politely. Ritika agreed. Then he launched into another story from back when he and Peggy had dated in high school. Peggy fumed silently. Ritika was eating it up, laughing her face off, not even noticing that Peggy was non-plussed. Peggy tried to laugh too. It was silly of her to expect Ritika to be jealous. High school was ages...


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A Guest Post by RUBYYY JONES At the moment I couldn’t tell you what the label is for my sexuality or orientation. I’m still in a discovery phase after a very swift 2011. At the beginning of that year I was just ending my first experience of heterosexual non-monogamy with a dash of heterosexual polyamory after ending my relationship with one long-term long distance lover and another lovely lover in an open marriage....


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A Guest Post by HLBB I’m not a fan of labels of any kind. I would rather carry a plastic bag from the grocery store than anything with a Louis or Gucci emblem on them. Labels don’t tell me about the quality of my purchase. It doesn't tell me whether or not it's the right fit; it’s just a label to tell other people where I got it from. An insistence to put on label is a pet peeve of mine actually; especially when applied to people and so much...


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A Guest Post by SOPHIE DELANCEY Sexual Fluidity. It can mean many things, but for me personally, it means just about everything. Starting in my early childhood, I had a lot of those "Oh my God, am I a lesbian?" feelings, and I didn't really know what to make of it. I was surrounded by awesome gay and lesbian people, so this wasn't a bad feeling, but it was confusing since I didn't feel like it quite fit. I knew I definitely liked boys, but I also crushed on a genderqueer kid. By the time...


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COCO LA CRÈME, Sex Educator Hey CoCo, I like to think of myself as a modern girl. I love sex, I’m adventurous, and I’m a smart cookie with a great job. I’m also currently single. Now, it’s not that I mind being single so much, it’s kinda where I need to be. The thing I’m struggling with is keeping solo sex fun and interesting. I have plenty of toys and books, but Iately I find myself craving stimulation that’s a little more…visual. Porn is always something I’ve...


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A Guest Post by JON PRESSICK “I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, A poet, a pawn and a king. I've been up and down and over and out But I know one thing: Each time I find myself flat on my face, I pick myself up and get back in the race.” That’s Life, Frank Sinatra Okay, the only one of those that I’ve been is a poet. Although, I have to say that I did feel a bit like a puppet in the attempts at getting...


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