COCO LA CRÈME, Sex Educator Hey CoCo, Do you have any advice for a premature ejaculator? I’ve had this problem ever since I started having sex and it’s the most frustrating thing in the world. When I was young it didn’t matter so much because no one really knew what sex was supposed to be like anyway.  Later, I thought it was something I’d grow out of as I gained more experience. Now, I’m in my mid-twenties and I’ve become terrified of casual sex because I’ve received...


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JON PRESSICK Who’d have thought that two of the hottest celebrities could be porn stars? Once (and still more often than not) the butt of jokes, the dirty movie duo of James Deen and Stoya are media darlings. While James is the happy goofball who can also talk porn representation and analysis, Stoya, from this article, is wunderkind, the one who is truly changing the industry and the general...


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MS. BLUE As those of you who listened to our latest podcast know, Sam and I attended the Feminist Porn Awards this year. Well, in addition to the sexy porn stars, great performances and hot porn clips, we got some amazing goodies in our swag bags. Now, although assortment of sex toys, lube and sexy DVDs were welcome...


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MS. BLUE A few months ago I wrote this post concerning the fact that I’m often witness to or inadvertently drawn into awkward conversations about the ‘sad lives’ singletons lead. Despite the fact that more people are single than married in Canada, the US, Britain and beyond, in my experience the default assumption of most people is that everybody – particularly women – should be very interested in getting...


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SAM SHARPE Last weekend Skye and I attended the 8th Annual Feminist Porn Awards. This week we decided to briefly recap the FPA's, talk a bit about the pathologization of hetero-male sexuality, and the ridiculousness that is Ray-J among other things. Check it out, enjoy and an extra special shout out to the good people at

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JON PRESSICK Unfortunately, we're going to start this round up with a bit of sad news. Sad news if you're into twin septuagenarian sex workers! The famous Fokkens sisters – Louise and Martine – have decided to close their window and retire from the Amsterdam sex trade. Believed to be the city's oldest sex workers, the twins believe they've slept with over 355 000 men in their...


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SAM SHARPE Lingerie is like ice cream. I like lingerie. You like lingerie. We all like lingerie. We might not all like the same type of lingerie but who doesn't like to see someone in an alluring and revealing undergarment. However, for me at least, lingerie can also be a source of frustration. Let me explain.

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MS. BLUE As you’ve probably all noticed we’ve been a bit wayward with posting. APOLOGIES. We’ve got no excuses – at least none other than life has been hectic. But when has it not been for any of us? Anyway, all that to say, that after a long pseudo break, we’re back and ready to get down to the business of handling our business this here blog – consistently. With that in mind, here’s my two cents for today. So, in between the family crises and visits to funeral homes (I wasn’t...


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MS. BLUE So the other day, my girls and I were dining at a fabulous local eatery. After a bit of small talk, playful banter and other tom foolery, the conversation turned to toward our second favourite subject (which is, as one would expect, very closely related to our first) - MEN. Of course, as we’re a mostly singleton set, we set about running through all the things we’d want in a prospective partner. All the clichéd desires came up first: A good sense of humour, intellect, kindness, honesty,...


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JON PRESSICK Isn’t just having sex for the first time just scary enough? Now this study suggests that how you feel about popping your cherry might colour current and future sexual relations? Really, don’t we all have some memories of our first sexy time that are, in the very...


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