MS. BLUE As those of you who listened to our latest podcast know, Sam and I attended the Feminist Porn Awards this year. Well, in addition to the sexy porn stars, great performances and hot porn clips, we got some amazing goodies in our swag bags. Now, although assortment of sex toys, lube and sexy DVDs were welcome...


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MS. BLUE A few months ago I wrote this post concerning the fact that I’m often witness to or inadvertently drawn into awkward conversations about the ‘sad lives’ singletons lead. Despite the fact that more people are single than married in Canada, the US, Britain and beyond, in my experience the default assumption of most people is that everybody – particularly women – should be very interested in getting...


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MS. BLUE As you’ve probably all noticed we’ve been a bit wayward with posting. APOLOGIES. We’ve got no excuses – at least none other than life has been hectic. But when has it not been for any of us? Anyway, all that to say, that after a long pseudo break, we’re back and ready to get down to the business of handling our business this here blog – consistently. With that in mind, here’s my two cents for today. So, in between the family crises and visits to funeral homes (I wasn’t...


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MS. BLUE So the other day, my girls and I were dining at a fabulous local eatery. After a bit of small talk, playful banter and other tom foolery, the conversation turned to toward our second favourite subject (which is, as one would expect, very closely related to our first) - MEN. Of course, as we’re a mostly singleton set, we set about running through all the things we’d want in a prospective partner. All the clichéd desires came up first: A good sense of humour, intellect, kindness, honesty,...


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MS. BLUE Happy Valentine’s Day, all! Not to worry. I’m not planning to bore you with a post about the wonders of this, the ‘most romantic day of the year’ – because I have much more interesting news to share, with all my single ladies and menz on the dating scene. This past Sunday, Dr. Helen Fisher, Match.com’s Chief Scientific Advisor presented the results from...


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A couple of weeks back, Skye and I sat down and chatted about sex, dating and love. More specifically we talked about sex-ed. And where babies come from. Apparently they don't come from your armpits....in case you were still wondering. More Than Pillow Talk, Ep. 18


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MS. BLUE Okay, so based on much of what we post around here, I’m imagine that few would believe that any of us have ever suffered from anything akin to sexual shyness. But let’s fact it folks, despite popular belief that we sex bloggers are good to go anytime, anyplace and perhaps even with anyone, even purveyors of smut like us face our fair share of sexual inhibitions...


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MS. BLUE I covered the issue of desiring to be desired in ‘Want Me…Please?’ a few weeks ago. As I stated then, the need/want to be desired by another can be pretty intense for some people. The same is true when it comes to love. There are many people out there who crave the feeling of being in love, like a drug addict craves his next hit. For these people love isn’t about finding a person who you can create...


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MS. BLUE People, tell me this. Doesn’t everybody over the age of 20 have a basic grip on the natural flow of a relationship? After one or two heartbreaks aren’t we all clear that the initial stages (0-3+ years depending on the couple) are blissful because you think your partner is absolutely perfect, and that the last few tend to be just a wee bit more challenging? Assuming as I suggest that every adult gets this, why is it that I had to endure the following conversation with a long time...


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MS. BLUE It’s 2009 all, and by now most of you know that choosing to date online is fraught with risks. Some of these risks are the same ones you’d face were you to meet a random stranger in at the local pub, and others are more specific to the medium. In either case using good ol’ common sense will generally keep you out of trouble, right? Well, as they say, common sense really ain’t so common and keeping your wits about you may get a little tricky when you’re swept away by L-O-V-E. ‘Skye,...


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