A Guest Post by London City Girl Ever since I was 12 and I read my first Sweet Valley High I dreamed that my first kiss would be to a jock called Tad. We would go for a malt, then he would brush his lips against mine and I would feel a shiver of pure delight rush through me. Never mind that I lived in the UK where no one is called...


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SAM SHARPE Something my mother taught me… My father hurt my mother in ways that I find unconscionable and unimaginable. Yet I never once heard my mother make a disparaging remark about him. She did say that the hardest thing about divorce was the sense of failure, the tendency to blame, to ask oneself “what have I done wrong?” But just before divorce proceedings began my mother was still willing to reconcile. Things became contentious. My mother told my father she was willing...


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ELIZABETH ROSE, SAM SHARPE and SKYE BLUE Thus far this week Elizabeth touched on fear and dating, Skye shared a story about

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SAM SHARPE Quick story. Three months had passed. Had not had sex, no sex in sight. I’m literally a walking, talking phallus. A dick in every sense of the word. A female friend, who I always suspected had a crush on me because I kind of had one on her, drops by unannounced to chat. Being sociable, I offer up the finest of my rums. We delight in their consumption and eventually regress into drunken diatribes against past partners who have wronged us or have been lousy lovers.

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ELIZABETH ROSE and SKYE BLUE Truth is, while Sam warns us about our male friends becoming harbour sharks, people of both sexes are prone to blurring the lines of friendship in their quest for a fresh bed mate. Some women can be just as predatory as men (hence why Elizabeth Rose is banned from under 21s rugby matches throughout...


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SAM SHARPE “See that’s the thing about dressing to impress. All the outfits that promise the most fun when you put them on are even more fun to take off.”  - Sam Sharpe aka The F'in Man Okay, I know quoting myself makes me appear full of it. Maybe I am. But what I do know is that I’m also often full of insight. Especially about what turns a man on. As I’ve mentioned before, it’s important to dress for the sex you want....


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SAM SHARPE Ladies, do you know what a harbour shark is? If not, I can assure you that you have one in your life right now. Your harbour shark is probably close to you. Very close. Could be that guy at work who you have coffee with, the one who chivalrously ensures that you get in a cab and get home safely after you’ve been working overtime at the office. Could be a dear male friend. I’m talking cry on his shoulder when things get tough at work or known him a long time, never dated him and even...


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SAM SHARPE I am moving to Europe. Not England. Pas France. Non Italia. No Espana. Not anywhere in particular really, just Europe. Why? I’ll tell you why. When I was there the people were friendly. Very friendly. To me. Not in a generic “how-are-you-doing-let-me-help-you-with-that-do-you-know-where-you’re-going-why-don’t-you-let-me-show-you-how-to-get-there?” way. But in an “I really don’t know who the f*** you are but my girlfriends (notice the pluralization) and I think you’re cute...


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