COCO LA CRÈME In the case of non-monogamy, I’m a big ol’ hypocrite. There I said it! It’s out in the open and I feel better now.  I also know that I’m not alone. There are probably quite a few of us out there. Partners who love the idea of an open relationship but have a hard time keeping their jealousy in check. We should start a support group for each other. We’ll call it Multi-Fuckers Anonymous. You can only join if you love enjoying your sexual freedom and screwing...


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SAM SHARPE I've learned more about swinging, polyamory and non-monogamy in the past year than I had in the previous 20. And you know what? I still haven't wrapped my brain around it all. I mean, I understand the nuts and bolts of these relationship categories but some of the various...


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MS. BLUE Okay all. Once again I have to apologize. This story was supposed to go up last night, but it proved much more difficult to write than I anticipated. You’ll understand why in a minute.

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Way back in the day, long there were two besties named Sam and Skye, there were two down for life homies named Toby and Skye. Toby slowly became a trusted member of my inner circle,...


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SAM SHARPE I enjoy few things as much as I enjoy shooting the sh** with my boys. Unfortunately for me, the vast majority of my boys are cooped up, locked in, domesticated--or what civilians call married. This means that our reasoning sessions, once more regular than a vegetarian with a bran muffin a day habit, are now so infrequent they tend to only happen on special occasions. Like birthdays. Or bachelor parties. Or to record podcasts.

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SAM SHARPE Being straight, or should I say "straight", is a funny thing. I say "straight" not because I'm not "straight" but because the term itself seems to say nothing about my sexual predilections and activities. I mean, I guess it does tell the world something about whom I'm doing when I'm doing what I like doing when I feel like doing it, but as far as labels go it really is blah; a no-name brand, a hard-on having, clitoris rubbing...


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A Guest Post by COCO LA CRÈME Everyone wants to be in love. That’s a pretty sweeping statement, but c’mon, isn’t it true? When we’re single, we complain about the lack of love in our lives and when our prospects are thin we despair for our lonely loveless future. Although many of us will go for many years and indeed, possibly reach the end our lives without a partner, singlehood is still viewed as a transient...


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JON PRESSICK I am one of those types. You know, the often-mocked, frequently derided and mercilessly ridiculed serial monogamists. Since I turned 16 years old, I have been single for a grand total of approximately one year. I am now 38. That’s about 21 years of relationships. And not short-term things. Nope. The minimum was a year and a half and the longest was, I dunno, six years? I’m...


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